Grant Ellis and Lithia came face to face for the first time after he sent her Bachelor Season 29 Finals.
The 31 -year -old Lystia claims during the live part of Monday, March 24, an episode that she and Grant, also 31, have discussed their future throughout the season – and during their last date.
“Grant and I had talked a lot about this day and all he had ever said about it was that he would be us,” she told the host Jesse PalmerS “We got married, you know, the first of the one we had in LA until the night before that day. I remember saying goodbye to him and saying,” Oh, God, tomorrow we get married. ” And he said, “I know I can’t wait. These were the last words he told me before I went there.
Litia claims that every time he “pumps the breaks” of their relationship, Grant “presses the gas”. She also claims that Grant told her that it was his ” # 1 emotional connection”, adding, “There is simply no way to interpret it wrong.” She added that Grant had previously told her that she could “stop the show” early, as he knew she was.
In the finale of the ABC series season, Grant admitted that he was torn between Lithy and Juliana is moving After they told both of them, he loves them. While Lindya said to Grant, “Choose me,” he seems to have reservations that the couple is not on the same page when it comes to their schedule for having children – and eventually sent it home.
“It’s hard for me. Litia, I love you very much. I want to give you everything you deserve. But I’m not your man. And I’m sorry to get to this point. My emotional connection is stronger somewhere else,” he said, to which she replied, “When did she change?”
“This has not changed. I love you – I don’t want you to feel as if I was not open or honest. I hope you don’t look at me differently,” he said, until Lithia replied, “Well, I, for sure.”
Lystia said there would be “many questions” if Juliana was based on what Grant said. While the couple was going to her car, Grant asked Litia if he had misled her. “The switch is crazy,” she said. “I’m disappointed … I just want to be so clear that I’m confused and I’m sad. And I’m crazy.”
When Grant joined Lystia on the live portion, she said he started with “great intentions” and noted that she did not think he was a “bad man”. Grant, who said he should “accept accountability” for her actions, apologized to Lithium for “hurt” her, her feelings and the people who love her. He added that he did not regret telling Litia that he loved her.
“I stand on what I said, but what I regret is the mistakes I made and speak early in situations where I did not know how conflict I would be,” he said, to which Litia claims that there is no “transparency” that he is so torn.
Lystia added that this was a “news” to her, that Grant was hesitant about her time line with children. “I’m excited that this is the last time I talk about it,” she said. “I am glad that all this, this last week and the last day, is not part of my love story. I know that I deserve someone to wake up one morning and know without a shadow of doubt that they will choose me.”
One week before Grant interrupts things with Lithium, he slaughtered the L-bomb just before the couple focused on fantastic dates for one night.
“I think the maturity you bring is great. I like the foundation you are standing on and I know where your priorities are, and I know what is important to you, this is what you are inside, that I can see you. And see you as my wife, because I love you too,” Grant said.
Later, Grant told the cameras that he had only said these three words another time in his life – and fearing that he should not have admitted his love for lithium with other women. (Grant has not yet had Send a second runner -up Zoe mcgradyBut it was clear he was talking about Juliana.)
“Maybe I should wait a little more,” he admitted. “I love her, but I also fall hard – and if not, very close – in love with someone else. I never thought it would be possible to fall in love with many women.”
While thinking on his season, Grant shared in His US Weekly Core story that he fell in love with two women. “I didn’t think it was possible, but it was so,” he said he was in love with two people at the same time. “You probably have to avoid it.”
Grant noted that it is “very difficult” to be the bachelor “when you develop feelings and then tell people how you feel.”

“You are honest and sincere and trying not to restrain yourself – because this is the way you find your man – but it’s easy to be a villain because you don’t want to lead anyone,” he said. “A man who meets many women is already in a disadvantage. You just have to be careful and see where the cards fall.”
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