A man shared a bitter relationship conflict associated with a morning coffee routine – with more than 13,000 people on social media who respond to it and more than 2,000 share their very direct comments and thoughts.
He was wrong, a man wondered a few days ago in a social media post, because he “would tell my girlfriend that I wouldn’t do that Make her coffee More unless she stops with micromanaging me? “
He said he was 24 and that his girlfriend was 23. They had been together for about two years, he said, “Living together for about six months.”
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Normally: “We have a good routine: I first wake up, make coffee and she wakes up with a nice hot cup,” he wrote.
But recently ‘the woman’ began to become really special about how she wants to do it, “the man wrote About his girlfriend.
The man (not shown) said he tried to meet his girlfriend’s daily coffee requests in the beginning – but then she started “grilling over”. (Istock)
She started to insist on a “super-specific method: measure the grounds to the exact gram, the mug for 30 seconds in the microwave, add the milk to a certain temperature and in and through.”
He said “in the beginning” he tried to meet her requests – “because hey, if she loves coffee So much, I want to make it nice for her, “he wrote.
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“But it came to a point where every time I handed her a cup, she would grill me:” Did you first weigh the site? ” “Have you heated the mug?” “Is this full milk or 2%?” ”
“Did you first weigh the site? “Did you heat the mug?” “Is this full milk or 2%?” “
He added that “if something was out, even with a little bit, she would sigh and say that it was not as good as” the right way. “
The man said that “one morning she literally took the mug from me, (the coffee) dumped in the sink and started the process itself – while he ravored that I never Do it in the right way, “he wrote.
“If you are so picky, just make your own coffee,” the man told his girlfriend. (Istock)
The man said he was frustrated by The constant conflicts.
“I said to her:” If you are going to be so picky, just make your own coffee. I have finished making something to only hear how it is wrong every time, “he wrote.
The man reported that his girlfriend “got up” about his words and said he “responded exaggerated”.
“I am tired of feeling that I am a barista under constant investigation.”
She said she “just wants her coffee in a certain way,” he wrote, “and that I should respect her preferences. I argued that I am wax With respect for her preference – I just did not appreciate the constant criticism or micromanaging. “
But the woman then accused him of “lazy and not in new,” he said.
On Reddit the young man wrote to others: “Now I feel guilty because I want her to enjoy it Her morning coffeeBut I am also tired of feeling that I am a barista under constant research. “
“Do I just have to suck it up,” I wondered a man in a Reddit post (not shown), “and follows her super detailed instructions?” Dozens of other people weighed their opinion about the problems of the couple. (Istock)
He asked others on the platform if he was wrong because she “said she can handle it herself until she stops with micromanaging me-or do I just have to suck it up and follow her super detail instructions?”
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One of the comments from others was this comment, which himself collected About 19,000 reactions: “If I ask my boyfriend to do something for me, I accept that it is a pleasure and I cannot be picky.”
“I would lead to me to investigate other interactions in the relationship.”
The person added: “She sounds like a piece of work.”
Another commentator said: “My rule: If you don’t like the way I do things, you can do it yourself the way you want. Don’t complain otherwise. “
Another person responded with these thoughts: “I hate it not to be at all, but it would investigate other interactions in the relationship to see if this worked for me. Drink Someone has made you in the sink while he muttered about how they did not do well So incredibly rude … I don’t think I would ever do that to someone unless I literally saw them pouring poison into my drink. “
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The same person added: “If there were no other examples of hers that was so rude, then I think the outcome would be that I would never, never have a drink (or anything else, probably), at least until she sincerely apologized … If nothing else, she must learn some bloody ways.”
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Another responder has made this statement about the behavior of the woman: “It is not just disrespectful, it is wasting.”
Fox News Digital reached for a psychologist for comment.
