Bachelorette alumni Trista and Ryan Sutter are celebrating their 21st anniversary


Trista and Ryan's adorable 21st anniversaries

Ryan and Trista Sutter Courtesy of Trista Sutter/Instagram

Ryan Sutter and Trista Sutter are celebrating 21 years of family bliss.

“I’m struggling to find new words to describe how much I love you or new ways to express how much you mean to me,” Ryan, 50, wrote via Instagram on Friday, Dec. 6, along with a black-and-white selfie of him and wife Trista.

“It’s hard to explain, but so easy to feel. You make it so easy to feel so good, so happy, so much joy, gratitude and peace within yourself,” the former NFL player continued. “Not many things in life are easy anymore, nothing but loving you… And I do, have and will – for every second since I said I do… #happyanniversary mom.” HIF. #love.”

Ryan was chosen by Trista as the winner of the first season of The Bachelorwhich aired on ABC in 2003. Trista, for her part, also celebrated her wedding to Ryan on Friday, sharing a photo of the couple from their wedding via Instagram.

The first Bachelorette Trista Sutter celebrated her 50th birthday with her husband Ryan, and some close the Bachelorette Trista Sutter and Ryan Sutter relationship timeline 520 friends, including show alumni Caitlin Bristow and Jason Tartick in the all-new Royal Curaçao Resort Sandals.


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Many Bachelor Nation couples struggle to stay together after the show, but the original Bachelorette, Trista Sutter, seems to have found her happily ever after with husband Ryan Sutter. “I decided going in that I had to give myself wholeheartedly to the experience to make it work,” Trista recalled exclusively to Us Weekly (…)

“It was December 6, 2003. and I didn’t think I could be happier,” she wrote. “🤍 When I look back on this incredibly special day, I realize that I was actually insanely happy. Definitely the happiest I’ve ever been. But throw in a life woven over 21 years of babies and fur babies, peaks and valleys, love and lots and lots of laughter — and I know a different kind of happiness. Real, solid, faithful happiness where I feel seen, known and deeply loved.”

Trista and Ryan's adorable 21st anniversaries

Ryan and Trista Sutter Courtesy of Ryan Sutter/Instagram

She concluded: “I appreciate them both. I appreciate you @ryansutter. Happy anniversary dear. HIF ❤️.”

Ryan and Trista got married in 2003 a three-part television special. The couple now share two children: son Maxwell, 13, who they welcomed in 2007, and daughter Blakeslee, 11, who they welcomed in 2009.

Trista has already spoken about her and Ryan’s secret to a lasting marriage, sharing Today in 2015 “It’s just like your job. You have to put the time and effort and energy that you do into everything else in your life, and I feel like (Ryan and I) do.”

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Two decades after finding love on the first season of The Bachelorette, Ryan Sutter admitted he’s faced some highs and lows in his marriage to Trista Sutter. “They never said it would be easy, but this year has been one of the craziest, most challenging and most unpredictable years of our 20s together,” (…)

She then added: “We’ve had bumps in the road, just like anyone else, but it’s really about staying focused on each other and making time for each other.”

In 2020 Trista talked about the experience of a televised wedding, revealing on an episode of the “LadyGang” podcast that A maiden child manufacturers have had plans certain storylines during her big day.

“I know this has been going on since my season, but it’s TV,” she shared during the November 2020 interview. “That’s what they have to do. Editors need to know who these people are and be able to pull certain clips from their ITM (currently). It’s a TV show, it’s always going to be a TV show. I feel like it’s becoming (will be) more of a TV show compared to how it used to be.”