
Matt James and Rachel Kirkonel
Paras Griffin/Getty ImagesRachael Kirkconnell has suggested some idea the reason for her split by Matt JamesS
“He said that at the end of the day there are only qualities for me who worry about having a woman,” said the 28 -year -old Kirkkonel during the time of Her podcated “call Daddy” The appearance that was presented on Tuesday, January 28th. “At the end of the day, there are things that we are not compatible with and all the accountability and expression of regret, and all this was really the main thing. It was just one of those things where he, in my opinion, just realized that “I would like to offer you so far. Such as at this point in our relationship, I have to ask for these things and I have to be ready for it. But I’m not yet, I still don’t feel that we’re ready or I don’t feel like I’m ready. I don’t know if I ever see myself to offer you. I really can’t see you. “
Kirkkonel recalled James, saying that one day he will reach the point of the proposal, but he does not feel ready.
“I told him, I said,” Well, I have the feeling that in four years you need to know or you have to feel ready. And if you don’t, that’s not a good thing. We should not be together if you do not feel like this after four years, because you know me better than everyone. I know you better than anyone, so you need to know if you see this for long distances or not, “she continued, noting that James” did not think “that he was his” perfect man “.

“He just didn’t want to resent him, wasting more than my time, if that didn’t happen,” Kirkkonel added. “He just said, you know,” You are beautiful, smart and fun and you will find, you will find someone, you will find a person who will love you for you. ” He just didn’t think it was him. It was just a lot to hear right away, because a few days before that, you know, I hear the opposite. “
Hours before Her interview with “call Daddy” dropped out, Kirkconnell was stopped at airport and Briefly turned to her separation From the 33 -year -old James for the first time.
“This is nothing you can prepare for. So you just take it one day at a time, “she said in the video posted via Instagram Gossip Account deux Moi on Tuesday. “I think things will start out.”
Kirkconnell said there were plans to talk about the separation “every time I’m ready” that looked when he was sitting from the podcast “Call Dad” Alex CooperS
“So far, I’m just defending my peace,” she added at the time. (Kirkconnell also denied that infidelity was the reason for their separation before noting that there was no chance of reconciliation in the future.)
James is blinding Bachelor earlier this month when I announced this He and Kirkkonel split After four years together. (Kirkkonel said during the appearance of “Call Daddy” that he had published the message “a few hours” after parting with it.)
“Father God, give Rachel the strength to repair our broken hearts. Give us peace of mind for this decision to end our relationship, which exceeds the worldly understanding, “he wrote on January 16.” Souls our friends and family with kindness and love to comfort us. And remind us that our joy comes from you, Lord. “
James shared a picture of himself and Kirkkonel from his Bachelor A season that airs in 2021, along with the breakup message. (The former couple left the season together but broke up before the final aired in March 2021 because of Kirkconnell past racially insensitive social media activity. They reconciled shortly after.)
“The division may seem sharply, but it has been boiled for a while. It was coming for a long time, “a source of source said US Weekly exclusively after their disintegration News. “Matt just couldn’t engage with her.”
The same source noted that it was “difficult” for Kirkkonel to “trust” James.
“Rachel really wanted to marry and settle down, and they weren’t on the same page,” the interior added. “He felt he was waiting around and he would never give her what he wanted.”