
Jessica Alba and Cash Warren
(Photo by Michael Tran/AFP via Getty Images)Months before, she announced that she had separated from her husband Cash Warren, Jessica Alba said she and Warren “became roommates.”
Alba, 43, opened up about her marriage in a frank conversation with a podcaster Katherine Schwarzenegger Pratt in April 2024
“Everything is rosy for 2 1/2 years, but then you become roommates,” Alba revealed on Schwarzenegger’s podcast, “BDA Baby.” “And you’re just roommates. You’re just going through the motions. That’s the responsibility. It’s a lot like checking boxes.
TMZ reported on Wednesday, Jan. 8, that Alba and Warren, 45, recently split and preparing to file for divorce. Us Weekly has reached out to their representatives for comment.
The couple they met on the set The Fantastic Four in 2004, where Alba was the female lead and Warren was a production assistant. They tied the knot four years later.
During their vows in 2008. It was Alba nine months pregnant with their daughter Honor, now 16. The couple went on to welcome daughter Haven, 13, and son Hayes, 6.
When Schwarzenegger Pratt, 35, asked how Alba managed to balance her heavy responsibilities — and make sure “your husband feels cared for” — Alba grimaced.
“If you’ve figured this out in your relationship, let me know,” she joked, adding, “You know, I think (Warren) is probably going to get the short end of the stick. … It’s hard. It is impossible.”
Alba said she and Warren had previously tried to schedule regular dates where “we wouldn’t have our phone and we’d just talk. But then it stopped because of whatever – and so we’re just not consistent.”
She advised Schwarzenegger Pratt’s listeners that it’s important to “communicate when you’re unhappy and smother it right away instead of letting it fester – and then you feel hostility and then it explodes.”
Alba also noted that she and Warren have “lived through it” since they’ve been together for so long, and joked that “he basically stole my 20s and 30s.”
“Obviously we have the camaraderie, the comfort of ‘You’re not going anywhere,'” she added. “And so sometimes you don’t treat these people the best, do you? You don’t consider their feelings the way you would other people’s feelings. So that’s something that I think is a constant – a constant that needs to be worked on.”
She said married couples should avoid discussing topics like children’s schedules when they are alone together.
“Date night or this time is when you really don’t have to talk about the annoying things you talk about during the week anyway. It’s time to somehow overcome this and register in a different way. But it’s hard. It’s really hard.”